You were always on my mind: Part 3

In 2008 my father was diagnosed with a rare motor neuron disease called progressive bulbar palsy.  We had never heard of anything like that before.  It is a degenerative disease where the central nervous system shuts down. It rendered him unable to speak for the last year and a half of his life and unable to eat for the last year.  My father faced the disease with grace.  A close friend of mine, Nicole, came to visit and observed that monks go into retreat, they don't speak and they don't eat as a means of reaching enlightenment, my mother and my sisters and I witnessed how he transformed.  He was brave in the face of it. He passed away on the 27th of June 2010.


All images © Monique Pelser 2010

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